don't know what to do...

[Sara516]

Re: don’t know what to do…

@diwana

The problem with OP stories can be found here.

All of a sudden a very abusive incidence is recalled by th OP when the ultimate result of the bashing desi arranged marriage and an imported Pakistani /desi man did not bring the intended result and members started questioning what should be the solution.

In the beginning ‘she’ said ‘she’ has one year old child. She supposedly conceived the child in Pakistan. And then she knew he had visa issue. Still in post # 15 ‘she’ tries to show herself a godie goodie wife and him being evil not been there when she gave birth to ‘her’ child.

And there was a tie when OP said 'she was from Britain. Nowhere it was mentioned 'she was from Berlin til,l ‘her’ English was questioned.

Exactly where are the inconsistencies? Does someone have to write their entire life story and timeline of where they were, before being taken seriously?

People move from different countries, is that unheard of in your world?

I went back and read post 15 and I still don’t see why you’re mocking her. Many women whose spouses live in Pakistan, spend time with him before his visa is issued, and they have children. It’s not impossible so I don’t know what your point is, by saying she was trying to “show herself as a goodie goodie wife.”

My question to you–most people here are good at sniffing out trolls. You–on the other hand–like to look for false inconsistencies and call everyone a troll. Why is that? Is it to deflect attention from yourself?