Re: don’t know what to do?
Totally agree. Some people make it sound like doing the investigation & all is the only key to a happy marriage…but its not…even though a lot of people do this but still many marriages get messed up…whereas I still see a lot of totally arranged marriages working where the spouse is in another country & they didnt know each other before marriage.
Really dislike these hypocrites where the family is extra naik in following islam & giving dars to others, when they & their family needs it the most (the MIL & son in this case).
As for the OP, you have tried to make things work but it doesnt seems to be helping. You can never trust liars.