Re: don’t know what to do?
ok the guy seems to be a complete schizophrenic/bipolar personality … plus this is a family of hypocrites ! a lady goes to a mosque and teaches Quran surely should know family values and running a home!
plus the guy drinks, has had past affairs and still contacts his ex gfs…do i see an islamic reason to continue this marriage - esp when he is not changing ??
as Sara said the income might be the main reason …but I don’t see the OP getting much of the income …when he has taken all the money from the joint account and just gives her 20-40$ for the groceries .
but yes the APPARENT impression of the entire family could pose a problem and thus the OP and the mother are both scared…esp when they don’t have a male fatherly figure to support them through this ! people would only think it’s the girl’s fault ..family to bohat he NAIK aur achi thi!
but at the end of the day ..this guy has serious mental issues and he hasn’t shown any signs of turning into a new leaf ! I would say get out of this mess …