Ignore Iconoclast and his thoughtless comment. In fact if he hadn’t made such a remark I’d be more surprised!!!
It’s so easy for bitter and cynical people to make such remarks as they get high on doing it! Lol. They are unhappy people and have nothing to say of reasonable intellect.
Your advice is highly valued RV and you totally rock the life forum. In fact I reckon everyone waits for your posts in all the threads as you give amazing advice.