if people ask for advice, give your opinion on the subject matter.
if people are turning to you to let out their fustrations and not necessarilty asking for advice, be a good listener and show support.
its having that holier than thou attitude and thinking that you are better than others, and making the other person feel what they are doing and how they are feeling is just silliness, is what bothers me. Everyone has a right to feel what they feel. And then telling others about that person, that subject matter, how they are handling it and what your idea of it all - in my opinion doenst go too well by me either.
Muzna, a family member few weeks ago asked me for advice, and I just simply said 'listen to your heart, it will always tell you the right thing' and that was it, that person was happy, they didn't feel judged in any way and I was saved from my moonh thakkana with this particular person
I am not taking any responsibility on my part any longer to make someone else feel better for whatever their actions might be, positive or negative, I am simply not engaging in giving any advice, and I think you should take my advice for the last time :D
