Don't find spouse attractive anymore?

[stoppit]

@candy_apple

Sara - Unfortunately I can’t change jobs. The type of job I am in will always only be situated in dowtown Toronto. We live in a suburb close to it, mainly the commute is long because of traffic and the pathetic subway system in Toronto, not because of the actual distance from our city to Toronto. The commute times in Toronto are actually the highest in the world when compared to other big cities like New York, Tokyo etc…there was some study done on this a while back. sigh
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Jaan leva - yes he does. Even if I gained weight, he would always find me attractive…he’s a guy. I think it’s easier for guys to remain attracted to their wives then the other way around.**

Changing the foods I feed him is definetly something I need to work on. The problem is I dont get much time to cook so either we eat at my mom’s house (she cooks healthy) or we eat what his mom makes (she cooks unhealthy most of the time…hence almost his entire family is pudgy or fat).

X2 - I totally agree with the planning ahead part. We’ve been extremely busy so it hasnt happened but I’d like to start cooking for the week on weekends or do the working on at that time. With all due respect though, I don’t agree with your point that time is not an issue. When you spend 4 hours a day in commute and 8 hours at work…that leaves you with max 3-4 hours in the evening when you get home…it’s not much to work with.

I do agree with your point about physicals. I am always tired…perhaps I have chronic fatique syndrom? I’m not sure…

This is the first time I’ve ever heard that.