Don't find spouse attractive anymore?

[korn666]

My dear Looks r not EVERYTHING!!!

U should be great full if he treats u well and thinks ur ok, no matter u have gained fat or not!!!

Seriously, u don’t feel attracted towards him anymore, like… are you sure that’s the only reason???

Look on the brighter side, does he hit u, abuse u, curse u, insult u or treats u like sh!t…

then u come and say ur not ATTRACTED to him.

As far as physically attracted is concerned then many men are physically attracted towards me… shall i bother NO, as I am married and strictly abide by my ethics of marriage!!!

@candy_apple

Hi there,

I am newly married…about 9 months now. I dated my husband for 4 years before we got married. When we first met, we were both crazy about each other and I found him VERY attractive. He is a very good looking guy and when I met him his weight was normal. As the years went by he gained quite a bit of weight. He is not fat, but definetly stalky or pudgy.

I’ve also gained a little bit of weight, but most people would still consider me slim (I just need to tone a bit). My husband and I both recognize that we both have gained weight (him WAY more than me) and need to work on it, however, he never makes an effort.

The little bit of weight I have gained doesn’t seem to bother him at all. He still considers me physically attractive.

I feel bad saying this, but I honestly am not physically attracted to him anymore. This may sound superficial because its not all about looks, but I can’t help the fact that I am only attracted to good looking guys with a decent physique.

Has anyone gone through this? How do you deal with it?