Yeah, thankfully they turned the lights out and clapped their hands when I blew the candles of my cake out.
You’re correct, it is my major issue. However, major doesn’t always mean only. The guy made it quite clear, if it was me with the sexual past, he would have dropped me straight away. Of course this then led me to question his mentality and other issues were brought into light. The respect I would have given him for his truthfulness was dissolved by some of the things he said, before I could even fully acknowledge his past.