So the guy I've been 'talking' to, you know, potential rishta, after 3 days of the same continuous argument, I decided to 'end' things. The guys mentality towards certain things just gave me an insight to what life may be, after marriage. I'm not sure how to tell my Mother about this. I'm not even sure when to tell her, as it's my birthday tomorrow and I don't want to spoil the atmosphere.
How do we know your issue? I read your thread desi man and white female and I believe that was your major issue with guy. He told you his past activities for the sake of building new relationship on the foundations of truth. Yes truth is always painful, unlike lie. Here, you can see another thread in life 1 about a girl who nikahfied and after that she told her past physical relationship to his husband and I read many replies from feminists posters that guy should forget it and let it go. I am not saying you should consider him but at least give him respect for his truthfulness.
Yeah, thankfully they turned the lights out and clapped their hands when I blew the candles of my cake out.
You’re correct, it is my major issue. However, major doesn’t always mean only. The guy made it quite clear, if it was me with the sexual past, he would have dropped me straight away. Of course this then led me to question his mentality and other issues were brought into light. The respect I would have given him for his truthfulness was dissolved by some of the things he said, before I could even fully acknowledge his past.
Yeah, thankfully they turned the lights out and clapped their hands when I blew the candles of my cake out.
You're correct, it is my major issue. However, major doesn't always mean only. The guy made it quite clear, if it was me with the sexual past, he would have dropped me straight away. Of course this then led me to question his mentality and other issues were brought into light. The respect I would have given him for his truthfulness was dissolved by some of the things he said, before I could even fully acknowledge his past.
yeah typical desi male , hes being "honest" by telling u abt his past & he deserves accolades for it- but that doesn't mean he wants someone with a past as his wife. tub tu naik parveen chaye.