Domination

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Domination

@pinks

maybe the opportunity never came up… i mean he’ll only have access to PCG’s finances after he marries her right? which self respecting man DEMANDS that his wife’s finances belong to him and that she seek his permission to spend money she earns? specially given that the OP is sensible in her earnings and has financial responsibility towards others. A man is just out of line to expect/ demand her money.

PCG i’d really take the time needed to think things through. Perform istikhara. Right out pointers on paper and have a lonnnng talk to the dude explaining your point of view. Perhaps you can BOTH come to a solution as to how the finances will be managed post marriage (e.g household bills shared, shared savings and the rest you both get to keep as you wish).

Obviously islamically speaking he has zilch rights over your money and property, but playing the islamic card to convince him in your discussions might be hard if islam was ignored in other aspects of your 6 month relationship.

Definitely will proceed with caution. It’s one thing to say you were joking around. He says 75/25 are just random numbers. Urgh. These are not things to joke about. And even if they’re random numbers, why are there numbers in the first place? Jeez. Some things are forgiven forgotten, and some things are just flat out red flags. Not sure if I’m going to keep going with this.