Re: Does making tea for your susraal make you a ghar damaad?
No it doesn’t. Don’t listen to your phopee. Please don’t. The most important person who’s opinion you should value is your wife’s as she is the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with and you did the right thing and I’m sure made her so happy in the process. Your sasuraal were guests in your home and not only is it plain old good manners to be hospitable but it’s also a part of our religion to be this way. So you def did the right thing by giving them tea. Don’t let one auntie change the way you think ESPECIALLY If your mother is on your side and telling you to ignore her.
You sound like a great caring guy and a good husband and your wife is lucky 