re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
Well like I said I believe when it comes to marriage, you gotta be upfront and honest with the girl and her family, I didn’t hide anything, I told her everything before we ever got nikkhaed, I clearly told her that if such things bother you, then don’t proceed. At the end of the day people will appreciate you much more if you don’t lie to them, regardless of what you have done.
Her response to me was positive, I guess she liked my honesty and all.
Her dads brother grilled be a little about those things, he asked a lot of questions. He took me out and had a conversation with me one to one, asked me why I would marry and divorce a girl so fast. I told him exactly what happened.
Because at the end of the day nothing was going to happen without the approval of her family, including her fathers older brother. The girl made that clear to me, that she liked me but she would never proceed without their approval.