re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
I so second that notion. After all she is ummm, errr, uhhhh, grrr. Psst. Forget it. 
At the end of it all. You both had put valid points upfront. Lack of communication probably took its toll in the end. So yes, you’re both right with your own respected views on the matter. 
Cheers.