re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
I don’t quiet get it. On one side, you’re truly admitting (me too) that one’s past does tend to come out eventually. On the other hand you’re also suggesting how one’s past is supposed to be done and dusted with. According to that thought, I’d be destined to be grilled If God forbid my past was to come out at some point of time down the road, which again it (past) most probably will.
To some. Past is also considered to be the pinnacle force behind making them a better person in the end. You learn from your mistakes, which of course you do while keeping them at the back of your head and not by burying them down like they never happened.
Holding on to your past successes and mentioning them whenever one feels appropriate is supposed to be alright. I think our mistakes also deserve some respect in this very regard. And no, I’m not suggesting we should go about mentioning them irrelevantly or to anyone (except one) for that matter. Just keep them intact within you is where I’d be laying my emphasis on.
Pardon my ignorance/intelligence or lack of. No offense intended in the end.