re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
Well I can only speak for myself, regardless of her status it would bother me. Even though I knew that she (my ex wife) not being a virgin was totally normal (she was married and lived with a guy for 4 months, so obviously she won’t be a virgin), I still have to admit to the fact that imagining her with another man was absolute mental torture. I would be lying to myself if I didn’t admit that.
I tried so hard to avoid thinking about it, but sometimes thoughts just pop into your head that you would rather not see. It did get better over time, but it was always there lurking in the back of my mind.