Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

[Naabigh]

re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

@EDAL

I was married for a few months to this girl who wasn’t a virgin, I use to get tortured by imagining her with another man. Talk about inner demons. It didn’t happen all the time, but when it would hit me, it would hit hard. I was shocked by how much it bothered me, as I didn’t expect it to bug me so much.

After we separated (for other reasons) , I realized I could only marry a girl who hadn’t been with anyone or in any sort of relationship before.

what if you were married to a widow or a khula-yafta woman , would it still bother you that much …