Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

[S_Punk]

re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

@EDAL

^^^^^^^^^^

From my experience, as long as a guy isn’t acting like that anymore, and is making efforts to return to the deen, girls are willing to overlook that kind of stuff, they may not even ask you. What matters is how you are now, and that you behave like a gentleman.

However if you are still promiscuous, and become rude and/or sexually aggressive with a girl, then for sure most likely any respectable Muslim girl will reject you. IF you act like the guy khattichic mentioned, then you can expect an ass whooping.

So to summarize, if you are having marriage discussions with a girl

1.Act like a gentlemen
2.Be honest about your past, don’t lie
3.Don’t lie about anything, ie your job, education, future goals etc..

Now obviously there are other things to discuss besides what I mentioned above, and both parties may decide that pursuing a marriage is not appropriate. However, if you follow my 3 steps neither you nor the girl will be humiliated and both can walk away with their heads held high.

No one will ever be angry with your for being honest, they will respect you for it.

Ok - and why doesn’t that hold true for a girl? =/ Your ex-wife’s past shouldn’t be an issue to you. You should have respected her. Right?