Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

[Reha]

re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

@EDAL

So basically what you’re saying is that if a girl marries a guy who isn’t a virgin she has self esteem issues, isn’t that a really big assumption? Would you say the same for a guy who does that? I bet you wouldn’t. What if your past behavior simply isn’t that important to her?
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No, its not a really big assumption. It is what it is. I says it like I sees it. The formula some men use is simply to find a girl young enough you can fool into thinking you’re the best thing since sliced bread. **

Like I said in my discussions with girls over marriage, (most from America, one from Pakistan) ***not once did a girl ask me “So have you slept with anyone before”, that question never came up. Ever.

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I actually just brought it up myself and told them straight up, every single girl appreciated my honesty.

You’ALL (yes I’m a Texan) are just mad that us fellows can still marry good honest Muslim girls, but that when a gal sleeps around, her pickings become quite slim.

Like I said, we all have different ways in which we see and interpret the world, so I’m just sharing my opinions and preferences.

So chill out.

Waittttttttttttt…you think we’re all jealous because you can sleep around? Possibly catch STD’s? Impregnate other women? Pay child support (yeah, you gotta pay even in Texas)? Really?

You know what is actually so ridiculous about your views? The fact that you are proud of your behavior. The fact that your posts come off as almost smug in nature…that you can do this and still end up with a virgin wife.

The fact also stands that you will have to pay a very heavy price for your sins…whether you like it or not.

Sleeping around and then marrying a child who doesn’t know any better is NOT an accomplishment. It simply proves your equals wouldn’t accept you.