Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

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re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

@Reha

Ravaged? What era are you from? What the heck are they feeding you in Texas?

I am sure you’re finding plenty of girls who have no problem with your views. But I have to say…it says a lot about the expectations they have from you AS WELL AS their own self-esteem.

**They accept your past because they know they can’t expect better from a person like you. Its actually pretty pathetic. **

They feel they can’t do better. Soooo…you basically marry a woman who has self-esteem issues.

And this is some sort of an accomplishment?

So basically what you’re saying is that if a girl marries a guy who isn’t a virgin she has self esteem issues, isn’t that a really big assumption? Would you say the same for a guy who does that? I bet you wouldn’t. What if your past behavior simply isn’t that important to her?

Like I said in my discussions with girls over marriage, (most from America, one from Pakistan) ***not once did a girl ask me “So have you slept with anyone before”, that question never came up. Ever.

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I actually just brought it up myself and told them straight up, every single girl appreciated my honesty.

You’ALL (yes I’m a Texan) are just mad that us fellows can still marry good honest Muslim girls, but that when a gal sleeps around, her pickings become quite slim.

Like I said, we all have different ways in which we see and interpret the world, so I’m just sharing my opinions and preferences.

So chill out.