Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

[Reha]

re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

@EDAL

If a potential girl has no problem with a guy not being a virgin then why not? Why would I go for a girl who has already been ravaged by another man, when I can get one that hasn’t, why? It’s not hard to find good educated Muslim girls who are virgins.

Girls today are pretty smart, they know if they started to demand men to be virgins they may never even get married.

I’ll tell you in my search, I never had a problem with any of this virgin stuff, no girl seemed to care and I talked to 3 or 4 when I was looking for a good wife, they just don’t care about that kinda thing.

The girls and their families were concerned about, if you are a practicing Muslim, what kind of degree you have, your job, is the family educated, where the girl will live, your looks , personality etc.. height, weight etc..

Ravaged? What era are you from? What the heck are they feeding you in Texas?

I am sure you’re finding plenty of girls who have no problem with your views. But I have to say…it says a lot about the expectations they have from you AS WELL AS their own self-esteem.

They accept your past because they know they can’t expect better from a person like you. Its actually pretty pathetic.

They feel they can’t do better. Soooo…you basically marry a woman who has self-esteem issues.

And this is some sort of an accomplishment?