re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
Essentially, doesn’t matter how much you put your point across some men will not listen. The best you can do is base it on a equal footing. Thus if a man has had pre-marital sex is no better or worse then a woman who has done the same. There is no need to prolong or extend such a basic point which is clear in our religion too. The only person your fooling is yourself if you argue with such people.