Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

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re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

@canadiandesigirl

Yes, you can by not demanding a “pure” virgin wife if you yourself aren’t just as “pure.” If you are worried you will end up raising another mans child than just wait a few months before you marry someone. If another man impregnated her it would be clear or how about do a pregnancy test? Just throwing out some ideas.

If a potential girl has no problem with a guy not being a virgin then why not? Why would I go for a girl who has already been ravaged by another man, when I can get one that hasn’t, why? It’s not hard to find good educated Muslim girls who are virgins.

Girls today are pretty smart, they know if they started to demand men to be virgins they may never even get married.

I’ll tell you in my search, I never had a problem with any of this virgin stuff, no girl seemed to care and I talked to 3 or 4 when I was looking for a good wife, they just don’t care about that kinda thing.

The girls and their families were concerned about, if you are a practicing Muslim, what kind of degree you have, your job, is the family educated, where the girl will live, your looks , personality etc.. height, weight etc..