Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

[Ghost14]

re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?

@canadiandesigirl

Yes, you can by not demanding a “pure” virgin wife if you yourself aren’t just as “pure.” If you are worried you will end up raising another mans child than just wait a few months before you marry someone. If another man impregnated her it would be clear or how about do a pregnancy test? Just throwing out some ideas.

Um, the point was that a woman who sleeps around may cheat on you during your marriage, and trick you into raising a child that’s not yours. I’m speaking in hyperbole here, where some men assume that because she’s not a virgin, she sleeps around.

And I suppose you would be perfectly fine with your husband asking for a paternity test right? My point was that there is a reason women are judged more harshly. It’s a fact. Accept it and move on.

Second, I never said that it’s justified to judge a woman based on whether or not she’s a virgin, which I stated in my comment above, as well as in my comment earlier in this thread. I don’t associate virginity with character, which (again) I stated earlier.