do you care for your brother or kin more than a random stranger on the street? yes.
should the stranger take that as an insult? no.
and this really is about being a muslim, if you are not following islam properly than you will not give a crap about anyone. alot of people claiming to be muslims dont give rat for other muslims. recent muslim history unfortunately you will find huge examples of muslims not caring for each other let alone non muslims.
that is true. If I reject Quranic verses just because my tiny brain does not understand them, then I am misguided. Where did the INTOLERENCE come from in that statement?
Any sane muslim who will read that statement knows that rejecting Quran is rejecting faith hence misguided.
Do Muslims respect/ value other Muslims more than non-Muslims?
To reply to this initial specific question...
Have you SEEN the way desis treat other desis? They treat 'em like the scum beneath their shoes. Take a look around you and what goes on in this website alone. And this is the most educated group of Pakistanis I've seen btw. You can imagine how much more horrible it gets in reality.
The back-biting, the rumors, the gaalis (insults), the harassment, etc etc. We can't even treat our own muslim women with any respect, nor do we allow them to live the lives they want.
But we kiss non-desi behinds, specifically non-muslim behinds.
I think if anything, muslims treat non-muslims better than they treat their own muslim brethren.