one of my friends is getting married to a guy who is 2 inches smaller than her in height....she is very sad at this thing...do u guys think the height matters??..comments plzzzzzzzz??
"very sad" ??
If his height is bothering her THAT much, if his height is distracting her from focusing on his other MORE POSITIVE qualities, then why the hell is she marrying him?
I could understand if she could overlook his height because he's wonderful in every other way and that all his other traits more than compensate for his height. But if she's "very sad", then it seems like she's having a tough time getting over it. Why'd she marry him? She always had the option of going for another guy who also had a compatible personality AND the desirable height. If she doesn't overcome her negative attitude, then it will reflect in her body language. And even the guy will be able to tell that she's not happy and it might hurt him. So, she's going to hurt him over something that he can't change that he has no control over? Regardless of the pressure that parents put upon you to marry someone, no person knows YOU better than YOU. If you know that a certain characteristic is going to be very tough for you handle, then have the courage to face the family pressure, move on from the rishta, and find someone you think is more agreeable in terms of looks and personality.