does caste matter

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Re: does caste matter

@ZareenKhan

self created they are but they are a reality now which we can’t escape!

are you trying to say that every civilized human being is gonna have a same lifestyle? or same customs and traditions? Yes, to some people these customs dont matter in that case it might not be an issue to marry out of caste. But to those whom it does, its not that easy to adjust with it. Not saying its not possible but just an added adjustment to make in marriage.

1- of course we can escape them if we choose to

2- no I am not trying to say that, i am saying that the more civilized you are, the more open you are to other lifestyles, customs and traditions. customs or traditions are important to an extent, not to the extent that some people make it out to be. The bigger the differences, the more important that would be for adjusting, not how important you make it to be. I am hard pressed to see what major differences can exist in people of same race, same religion, who speak same language living in the same city, same mohalla..that they can’t marry among each other.