I know a lot of guys look for beautiful women. and it is kind of same everywhere. but my perception is once when you have been with a person for a while, everything seems to fade away. it all becomes normal. the kind of things that you look for, beauty included, does not matter any more. or does it? i just want to know what married people think about all this?
You are 100% correct.
Physical beauty matters less and less as you grow old with your spouse and it is replaced by your inner beauty.