I know a lot of guys look for beautiful women. and it is kind of same everywhere. but my perception is once when you have been with a person for a while, everything seems to fade away. it all becomes normal. the kind of things that you look for, beauty included, does not matter any more.
or does it?
i just want to know what married people think about all this?
Re: does beauty matter after getting married?
it does not "fade away" it gets into your soul it becomes part of you.
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Beauty should never fade away! Yes you become more comfortable with one another, but that does not mean you should not be hot for one another. I think this is the biggest mistake that girls make, no matter if your 50 years into your marriage, a husband still needs a hot wife!!
Oh and yes even after 50years a wife needs a hot husband too.
Both of them should be well-groomed and maintain themselves.
Both of them should be well-groomed and maintain themselves.
Yes, i agree 100%!!! most ppl get lazy and forget their appearances and manners after several years of marriage. its nice to keep that honey-moon-state feeling going by dressing up and pampering yourself to impress your spouse.
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One piece of advice my mom gave me before I got married was to always make sure I look decent in front of my husband. Now being married I think its so true. Husband and wife should stay clean and good looking for each other as this increases attractiveness. Personally, sometimes I just have a bad hair day or I'm just not in the mood to straighten my hair at times but more often than not I make it a point in my busy schedule to dress up for my husband and to wear his favorite colors or do his favorite hairstyle.
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ONe must keep looking the best they can, for themselves and each other.
Yeah, it's very important to maintain yourself but it's equally important to have a partner that makes you feel just as attractive when you're in your most hideous PJs.
Marriage should not change how you take care of yourself. If it does, you were not depicting the real you before you got married.
Of course, you should be attracted to each other before you get married, but there had better be a deeper attraction than just outward beauty. It's a fact of life that we all age. That said, aging is hugely different than letting yourself go.
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Yes it does. Hehe it's funny cuz my fiance and I were discussing this and he told me that he would expect me to be physically attracted to him even when we are 80 years old! :S
Nice Information, Tnx for this .
Thank you. Come again.
Yeah, it's very important to maintain yourself but it's equally important to have a partner that makes you feel just as attractive when you're in your most hideous PJs.
Exactly :D
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Well in your case Chipkali neither would matter would it.
Ha ha…so you’re basing this comment on her nick, “Chipkali”. Chipkali is a SWEETHEART. Her personality by itself is pretty hot.
By the way, Amir…even ANIMALS manage to display subtle courtship behaviors.
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guys and their mother as well…baad main wohi pari chera manhoos hojata hai 
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^Dopey
I meant as in the way she the hijban whoz beauty never gets seen anyway.
By the way the chipkali is a lovely mammal I never despised it in any way.
it matters but not so much anymore but there is one thing paki guyz are obsessed about even after marriage..wife<s body weight..now i don<t know if weight gain equates to diminishing beauty though
I think after marriage it may be more important to look good for your spouse. To keep the love and relationship alive it is good to look attractive for one another. Keep them interested and their attention.
You don’t have to decked up in your wedding lengha and a full face of make up. A little bit of make up, clean clothes and neat hair can do wonders. Both should shower regularly:D
I know a lot of guys look for beautiful women. and it is kind of same everywhere. but my perception is once when you have been with a person for a while, everything seems to fade away. it all becomes normal. the kind of things that you look for, beauty included, does not matter any more. or does it? i just want to know what married people think about all this?
If the guy actually married the woman because he loves her for her qualities, then the beauty will certainly NOT fade away, the more he will get to know her and get intimate with her, the more attractive she will be to him.
Now If a guy married a woman for the wrong reason in the first place i.e her appearance only, then the beauty will of course eventually fade away with time.