alien face dude.
the formal and corny things ur saying..anybody can say...infact those are the ideal attitudes everyman/women should have...but we dont do we.
im trying to give ladies some realistic advice here.
This is the Truth...Ladies u may not...but most men (like 99%), the first criteria at the top of for wife/chic check-list, is...beauty........ If only a girls pic/looks please them, do they take the 'baat' further, otherwise expect some excuse.
This is the truth. So if this is one of the main reasons a man chose u first, it makes sense that he would prefer it to remain after to. And while its true that after marriage love and attarction can develop for other features...and beauty can become less signnificant...
reality-check-----....^ its sounds good...but the reality is also that...men do still like beauty and they always like eye-candy...so unless u can tolerate our eyes gazing freely better u give us somthing that we dnt need to...and im sure a lot of you wud agree that these freely gazing eyes is often the root of further trouble.
and I didnt say a man will defnitly go after his sister-in-law...thats just an example.. alien-face... yes its sick but humans are like that- Read the below evidence.
A man came to the Prophet (pbuh** ) and asked him about the brother-in-law living in the same house as the married couple.** The Prophet replied:
''The Brother-In-Law is death'' - Sahih Bukhari
Hope i added something useful to this thread..once again its just mi 2 cents...no fatwa or anything.
Well listen blank face dude, not everyone thinks like you, or behaves the way you do. Every human is an individual, even though some like to be sheeples. So stop generalizing.
BTW, i can sense some FOB mentality in you, are you a FOB by any chance?