Ahh alien dude who u cheating.
When the pious of the pious of peoples couldnt contain thier feelins for one girl who are we. Girll.z ......a valuable truth...Beauty Does matter......Fatness is defenitly a no-no
The main weakness guys possess is in Beauty. And Most Guys do place priority in looks going for u in the first instance anyway.
You need to improve your reading skills. Where did I say that a man doesn't like the beauty of a woman? What I said was that If a man marries a woman just because of her outer apperiance i.e. her beauty, it's the wrong reason to marry. A man should marry for her qualities. Not only her outer apperiance. The entire beauty thing is subjective anyway. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all. What might be beautiful to me, is maybe not so beautiful to you.
And say you ignore that bit after marriage, and one rainy day a sexy-paki bomb-shell pops infront of ur hubby---Who he just cannot avoid....Like say his co-worker/boss/friend/sister-in-law.....Vwhat will you do....u wud wish at that time he wudnt need to look at her...vudnt u.
Now that's just disgusting, your sister in law is supposed to be like a sister to you.
And to answer your question, lower your gaze...