Re: does anyone have an"Open house" problem
Yes i appreciate all the support and words of advice that i am receiving here. What am i looking for? well out of respect and to avoid confrontations i am keeping my mouth shut and for the sake of my exam as well. So when everything piles up instead of exploding i get some comfort in venting out my thoughts and feelings here at this post--while i am doing this i also take into considerations so ideas and advice that i get from you wonderful guppies--i also certainly helps to have words of support--and alot of time it helps to know that i am not alone in these issues--
as far as my husband he is one of the best husband's a girl can ask for (and no i am not just saying that) but just like he is a wonderful husband he is also a great son--which with these issues is becoming a problem--yes ms. MiZrani i agree--no matter what he understands, he sees the issues, he is having to adjust himself with them and issues but he says what am i suppose to do--they have nowhere to go--if they go to paki..they have already made up their mind that they will get sick then we have to go get them anyways--
the problem is that the inlaws instead of realizing that hey this set of son and DIL are the only ones that will take care of us so we need to make sure we don't do things to disturb them--they have basically moved in with the attitude that we are here now adjust to us and deal with it--if you try to talk to us we won't understand--get upset and threaten to go to paki(which ofcourse meanign we will 100% get sick)...
i guess due to the farz, duties, responsibilities and respect we are kind of stuck with the situation but unfortunately at this time due to my exam we really can't speak to them adn be prepared to deal with consequences--
but i will tell you atleast it relieves me a little just to get some stuff of my head---
so thanks for that..........