Re: Does anybody know a playa/flirty person that’s settled now?
if this question is directed towards me then no his past wouldn’t matter to me b/c i think we all learn from our mistakes in the past, playas and nonplayas, I think we all become better people with all these experiences, if they have in fact stopped. I think a playa did certain bad things in his life, he saw women as sex objects or really wasn’t emotionally invested in any of those past relationships but when he does actually make that effort to change or make that grand realization within himself to stop playing with other human’s emotions, he’s a better man for it.
i personally try not to judge somebody negatively, who am i to do that. that’s why i’m still friends with these desi guys.
going by my observation in the nonvirtual life, i feel like it’s an addiction or need to constantly conquer any pretty woman that comes by or see how many they can win over. maybe there are different kinds of playas ones like X2 and then the ones like the desi guys i’m friends with
the ones that actually overcome an addiction(any addiction OR WEAKNESS in life) are heroes in my eyes, b/c they’ve licked the one big weakness they might have had in their life, that might have caused pain for others or caused pain to themselves