It’s one thing to say something that sounds fair but its a very different story when one has to live through it. What you are saying sounds perfectly alrigt but we all know the reality is far from it. One way or the other guy does end up favoring his parents over his wife’s parents and there could be million reasons for it, not having any support system by her side. She has to give in to her husband’s demands because she lives with you and your parents. She have to live through this everyday unlike the husband. This is regardless of her having a career or not. If she’s living with inlaws she has to abide by their rules or she will be labeled $&$$:@