I press cloths for her whenever she ask me to (ok I dont doo good jobs on desi cloths but hey i try?). I sometime do her laundry (am i less of a man? 
) I dont even wake her up for preparing breakfast but all I am saying that had i waking her up, its NOT a big deal.
I am not sure if you really want to discuss this seriously or you are just posting it for the sake of it but if you are serious in this discussion, I’d suggest that you go through serious training/counseling before getting married (if its not to late already).
Marriage is name of give and take. You take somewhere and then you give somewhere.