Re: Do you think Sadness is Alluring??
Isn't sadness...an over all air of despair, seductive/alluring in nature.For men if its the lady in despair...they have this strong sense of becoming her saviour..rescuing her from it.Being her knight in shining Armour. On the other hand if its the guy who is the one showing his vulnerable side, it is even more alluring (as that is pretty much rare), and the girl wants to be the one consoling him and again the rescuing him from the despair. What are your opinions guys/girls? Have you experienced/observed such a phenomenon.May be you didnt realize that you were doing it:)
I get what you are saying...I agree its got its appeal, but then your intention would probly to make the other person smile again. That means the allure is temporary. I mean if you cant get them out of the sadness, I dont think you can live with the sad person for too long.