do you tell your spouse everything that happens in your own family..

[nadz123]

Re: do you tell your spouse everything that happens in your own family..

@Sahar02

Nadz, based on recent posts, it seems that you and your husband have a very yours/mine sort of approach. Even your frustration with him highlights your own thinking about his family vs yours. This approach works for a lot of couples. But if you don’t like it, then you and your husband both need to talk together and change your own thinking.

Why don’t you tell him you heard about his sis, that you are excited, and wish he would’ve told you? Talk to him without being accusing. And work on one issue at a time. And stop talking to other people more than you talk to him. That’s the beginning of the end.

he doesnt have a mine/yours approach, i think its me, i think i stem 90percent of the issues.: