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^ sure is
and most of the western marriages are lease options executed :)
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omg.
I have never seen an analogy so vastly different from the subject.....and yet so apt.
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Equating woman to a car, now that should make us feel proud and happy :)
I do sometimes regret not dating because I think I would have gained a better understanding of what I like and dont' like and can and can't tolerate.
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^it's not equating. it's an analogy. you can say the same about a man...
Equating woman to a car, now that should make us feel proud and happy :)
Dont take it to heart. I used the word "spouse" and not "wife" :)
yeah and then there are taxis, you know, you pay you get transport. there are also buses which are cheaper than taxis, but the crowd can be a little off putting.
there are short lease options as well which although technically not renting is essentially the same but it may be seen more favorably.
for more exotic cars there are these timeshare abilities where multiple ppl pay into it and have a few days a month/year with the car or cars.
exciting industry.
LMAO!!! ....and on the other hand it can be "quite" fun!!!
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before getting marrried..
dating..
skinny dipping
hard partying
threesome
try some exotic wine at least 100 years old..
and the list goes on....
it's never ending... so well hmm..
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I don't think were missing out on anything! It's a tad overrated imo! And not having dated ppl before makes everything even more special, as its all new to you and you cherish those moments even more!
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I regret it a little. I had had one of those Chat Mangni, Chat veya deals...so got to really know hubby after Nikkah. Granted we did know each other most of our lives...but not the same.....oh well....2 kids later I cant really complain :)
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I did not date, I fell in love with my wife to be , proposed to her parents , they accepted and we are living happily ever after we got married.
So which scenario is covered in my case ?
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dated a bit
when i was not looking for someone
and when i was
then dated conans ki amman
and then got married
dunn think it made anything less special really.
okay kidding
I never dated before getting married
so feel I missed out and need to do it now
so make a line here please..
okay not you..
kidding about this, the first part of the post is true, rest is bhang and afeem talking
I did not date, I fell in love with my wife to be , proposed to her parents , they accepted and I am living happily ever after we got married. So which scenario is covered in my case ?
you have 2/3 kids, working your ass off to put the food on table and roof on head... you wake up every morning imagining about different possibilities.. k ager aesey hota.. ya wesey hota...
and then you go to job.. work until your ass starting to hurt.. probably even thinking about bank robbery to get alot of money.. or some other way..
go back to home.. maybe watch tv for few hours and. .the circle continue !
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Nope...it was always too much work in my opinion...still is.
Dating is like renting a car. Renting a car to see which features you like and which features you dont like. If you dont like the car, you just return it (move on) and if you like it, you buy it (get married) BUT you never drive rented cars (dates) with care as you drive your OWN car (spouse). You dont take rented cars seriously like you take you own car. When you rent a car (date), you look for luxaries and perks (how does the date look like) but you can still end up getting a crap engine under hood if you buy it just for looks and finally.....chances of getting killed in an accident are equal no matter if its rented car or u owned it.
absolutely wrong... as a matter of fact you drive Rented car Very carefully because you know u got to pay for every single scratch u gonna put on it... whereas it is NOT the case with your Own car. ...
its like when your gf got even a mild flu, u guys get all worried and stuff and ask about her every minute whereas when your wife becomes ill or even have 104F fever, she is still expected to cook n clean and please you and take care of your damn extended family. ..
u take your car for granted but not the rented one :)
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you have 2/3 kids, working your ass off to put the food on table and roof on head... you wake up every morning imagining about different possibilities.. k ager aesey hota.. ya wesey hota...
But you know what, every decision you make, you're always going to think..."what if" whatever the current situation is.
absolutely wrong... as a matter of fact you drive Rented car Very carefully because you know u got to pay for every single scratch u gonna put on it... whereas it is NOT the case with your Own car. ...
its like when your gf got even a mild flu, u guys get all worried and stuff and ask about her every minute whereas when your wife becomes ill or even have 104F fever, she is still expected to cook n clean and please you and take care of your damn extended family. .. ** u take your car for granted but not the rented one :)**
I am inclined to agree with this especially when its a love marriage and you go from "renting the car" to "owning the car." you take it for granted.
I never dated, but I did talk to guys, and the pain of rejection and the confusion and all the mind games that I had to play really put me off the thought of ever dating because I felt, if THAT was so painful, imagine how painful a break up would be.
I can't say that was the best attitude or right attitude to have, but hey thats what it was. :)
absolutely wrong... as a matter of fact you drive Rented car Very carefully because you know u got to pay for every single scratch u gonna put on it... whereas it is NOT the case with your Own car. ...
its like when your gf got even a mild flu, u guys get all worried and stuff and ask about her every minute whereas when your wife becomes ill or even have 104F fever, she is still expected to cook n clean and please you and take care of your damn extended family. ..
u take your car for granted but not the rented one :)
Not really. When people pay $15 insurance on car, they dont pay a dime even if the car is totaled but when you crash your OWN car, you have to pay and your insurance goes rocket high.
What you are talking about wife totally depends on people and its called the reality of life before getting marriage its all fake. Calling home 100 times just does not cut it in real life. btw, dont turn it into wife/husband thread. Intensity shown before marriage and Intensity lost afterwards is always from both ends :)
Don’t agree… not true, I’ve never been taken for granted… sure, sometimes it feels that way but then little actions make you realize you’re wrong and your husband’s just not into expressing himself much verbally … it doesn’t mean you’re taken for granted.
When I get sick my poor hubby tells me to go rest and cooks/feeds himself … also keeps asking kiya khaao gi, kuch laa doon… he’s such a darling 
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