Re: Do you mind if your hubby interferes …
you guys are so stupid
how should i say this
a woman is the care taker of the house not some labour. indeed it is her responsibility to take care of the house but it is not her job to clean, cook, clean, mop, iron, landry, are you gonna kill her?
i never give my personal example, but in this case i will since noone really knows me.
my mom is the head of the household related issues (meaning everything that happens inside the house). she is responsible for keeping the house in good shape since she is a house wife. but this does not mean she cleans and clearns all day long when we are at work. that is riliculous. there are tasks assigned in my home interms of cleaning washroom, vaccuming, cleaning cars, dishwashing, etc. (that are do able by the male members of the family) whatever is leftover she does it (including cooking, etc.) all the labour stuff she does not do (carrying groceries, etc.) in our household women (mothers and wives) are ‘so-managers’ of the house and not labour/maids. so we do and should do the labourious work since we love them so much.
i hope i made myself clear
Yes you did
And Am not Stupid…
TLk
Well comparing is a bad thing to start with. We shldnt compare, but my point was that from our posts we try to say that Maali are lower by Zaat or is a bad occupation. They are hard workers and hence closer to ALLAH.
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