Ok Guppies and Guppans. I want to know the truth and I want to know it right now.
Do you have a soulmate? If you are married or engaged it could be your significant other or it could be someone else. After all being married implies all kinds of thorny responsibilities that a soulmate does have to get involved in.
It could the same gender as you (boring) or opposite. How close are you to your soulmate?
Are there any adventurous Guppies who have more than one soulmate like an auxilliary backup soulmate maybe?
If your soulmate is not your spouse, what do you talk to him/her that you wouldn’t talk the spouse? How often do you meet?
And last but not least, is there any hanky-panky with your soulmate?
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What exactly qualifies someone as a soulmate?
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Basically it is one person (not your parents!) that you can talk about anything, with whom you feel a total absence of rejection. Example, female soulmates of mine will talk to me openly about their husbands and will in fact tell me about things they wouldn't even tell their spouses. When one of then is running down her husband, often she will accept my suggetion that the fault may be her's and her husband's. You had soulmates when you were three years old. We forgot how to make them due to today's over-competitive society.
Is it possible to have more than one soulmate? Who says your soul mate has to be your husband/wife or someone of the opposite sex who you are romantically involved with?
To me, a soul mate is someone who you can talk to about anything and everything; someone who you can let your defenses down when with them; someone who you need in your life and cannot comprehend living without.
I think I have about 2 or 3 so far and no, there is no hanky panky with them .
You got it Mehnaz. Same with me. I got a bunch. Only one is a guy, the rest are women. Don’t ask me why. I have always liked women better.
No hanky panky with most.
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I think a soulmate is someone you have a physical bonding on top of mental alignment. I could be wrong. **Why mate if it's only mental?.*
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dunno, ask the Aussies they call everyone a mate... may be they are in searh of a soul...
I don't know Arvind. It seems to me that you may very well be confusing the concept of soul-mate with best friend. A soul mate would know what's on your mind without you having the need to tell them. You can have 3, 4 or 15 best friends but I think a soul mate is a one spot only position. Which can perhaps be replaced but not filled simultaneously by two or more people. Being honest with someone, sharing your life long secrets and asking for advice is different, that's where a good friend can come in. With a soul mate, you have a shared purpose in life, someone who makes you feel complete and if you're lucky enough, you get to spend your life with them.
many. depends on who is available right then and there. but i have 1 male soul mate...my beshtest friend, and then a couple of my friends that i consider my soulmate. and then my other friend tells me everything, but i really don't tell her everything, but does that still count?
my soulmates keep coming and going
and the romantic soul mate...umm opposites attract...that is all i will say.
i would love it if i am able to spend the rest of my life with one of my buddies, who ever that would be. not married or anything, but just someone. now that would be my pakka soul mate
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