well…If I am that little kid and you are the supervisor of the lawn and keep on telling you nicely 10 times not to mess up my lawn. Or If I read the board that has listed rules before entering the lawn and you ask me nicely and repeat the samething over…
I’ll get very irritated and leave.
I am pretty sure, its not what you want. right? 
We know the rule and we are not crossing it, if we are about to cross it we should be warned yes..I agree to that…Not when we are not crossing it at all. You should understand that before you defend your friend here my good sir. 
few more of this and this will turn in to a personal grudge match.
Yes I agree that we dont own this site…but them mods dont either and so they do not have the right to push us around for no reason.
kthxbie