Do you get along with most everybody you meet?

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If you don’t get along with one or two people, do you see it as an issue with yourself or with the other person that you aren’t getting along with?

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I think it depends on person to person. Some people feel over confident about themselves and it always seems to be the other person's mistake.

For me personally, even if it is one relationship gone wrong, I do stop to ponder on where my mistake was and how to rectify it. Sometimes we can see a pattern in ourselves and if that pattern is harmful to us in our social setting, might as well just let it go.

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I get along with pretty much most people I meet but then some people don't get along with me :(

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A person that brings out the worst in you and yet you get along fine with most coworkers and friends regardless of their issues since all of us have them.

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Its not one sided usually.

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I don't really think about it..

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not necessarily an issue with me or the other person, it's just that the chemistry between the two of us is not the same.

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Concept of chemistry, explain it please kkf

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every one is made differently in terms of likes, dislikes; priorities, preferences; psychology and philosophy...etc.

when you have a close match, you get along just fine...if not, then...well, we tend to drift away in search of someone with similar interests.

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Okay see there's this person who is highly educated, he is spiritual and religious. He seems very nice because he's thoughtful about whenever he meets people or goes sightseeing he brings back stuff for friends which is sweet but then he throws little potshots at me when he's speaking with me like he's bitter about something or he emails or messages a friend over and over until the person responds back.

our personalities probably don't match.

One example of the potshots is while buying something and asking for the price of the item in a desi store I thought it was very expensive so I told the store owner to put it back but he lowered it by 2 bucks which still made it highly expensive and I kept saying I don't want it. This friend under his breath says "it's hard to make her happy"hehehe.

If I didn't want to buy the darn expensive thing why push it on me. Maybe it's me. I ignored it but then there are other times when he says things similar like that. I'm an abcd but I'm not very desperate to find someone right now that I would go extremes. I'm trying but I'm leaving it to Allah as well. He says stuff like I should have a board around my neck that says I'm an American citizen marry me. I guess some people might find that amusing but those are just two examples of how he is. I'm just trying to think is it me that needs to adjust and lighten up. I get along fine and I'm comfortable with most everybody else and if not I adjust but this guys just rubs me the wrong way. How would you react to such a person?

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I get along with everyone until they tell me they're Team Jacob. Then I just lose my ish. :(

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Team Edward? But why?

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He’s so dreamy. Dat pasty butt :wub:

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I’ve been scarred for life

and you’re suppose to use my smiley :arzi: : arzi : :grumpy:

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Wow, shameless plug for your own smiley? :hehe:

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You know me, I’m all for self promotion :arzi:

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Oh right, I forgot that you’re a diva. :chai:

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:k:

You are learning itttt

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As the one and only Yogi would have said, I get along with everyone except those I don't get along with.

And to OP'S question of course it is the other persons fault.

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i dont meet people.