Do you encounter this feeling in dating?

I don’t want to grow on her/ him nor act detached. what level of text messaging and or argumenting about general world view back and forth talk is appropriate, to assess each other’s thoughts and ideas?

when should a young lady stop and avoid circuitous comments and arguments?
& when should a young man do so?

is it healthy to be only a listener in a relationship, and write back a one line of " i agree" or “u are right”?

& let’s say u have not met this person in real, yet, should u really be talking out in advance, so much that u fear, when the first meeting will be, there will be nothing to say, really?

& it might be a silent first date? :>
opinions? chime in, all!

dush

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Men r always listeners, and I'm sorry but if you rehearse conversations you need help, lol. It wont be a silent date unless both people are the shy and quiet type which is near impossible because how would they meet and i dont think they would be going on blind dates.

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eh?...what?...maybe i'm just to tired understand what the topic is, but somebody please explain what the gist of her topic is this time.

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Simple way to avoid these complications: Don't date.

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For once, I am willing to stay quiet and let that Allah Mian ki gaaye architect speak. Poor khawand chef hardly gets any time of the day in, with all them paintings and dushwar charts. :>

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wrong...in my case im usually the listener and hes the one who talks alot....im sure he can win an award for talking so much.

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you date a lot impulse?

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hehe
it is true, some girls just listen to the guys.

but in some cases, shocked by the charms - some people do not say a word, and others in their nervousness, keep on a non stop discussion.

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well said

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Dates are good. I like dates, especially from KSA with almonds in the middle, instead of seed. yummmmm .....

:LB:

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i hate kajooray :bummer:

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u are the only 1 ........ i guess:o .............

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kajooray ki kiya meaning hai:confused: …

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yeah just get right down to business.. dating is a waste of time and money.
well that kinda used to be my motto :smiley:

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:rotfl: hahahahahah, true true.

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kajooray=dates? :konfused:

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:hehe: :k:

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We agree 100% on this! :D

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i wasnt talking about dating. no i dont "date" as such. I was merely replying to afridis comment that guys are the ones who always listen..

it was just a general comment.

date is going out with someone etc....right? no i dont do that....that will only happen after our nikah is done insha-allah

talking can be done in other ways....such as on the phone

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^^ once u have ur Nikah ... you will go on date with guys? tsk tsk tsk ... thats even worse :LB: