I don’t want to grow on her/ him nor act detached. what level of text messaging and or argumenting about general world view back and forth talk is appropriate, to assess each other’s thoughts and ideas?
when should a young lady stop and avoid circuitous comments and arguments?
& when should a young man do so?
is it healthy to be only a listener in a relationship, and write back a one line of " i agree" or “u are right”?
& let’s say u have not met this person in real, yet, should u really be talking out in advance, so much that u fear, when the first meeting will be, there will be nothing to say, really?
& it might be a silent first date? :>
opinions? chime in, all!
Men r always listeners, and I'm sorry but if you rehearse conversations you need help, lol. It wont be a silent date unless both people are the shy and quiet type which is near impossible because how would they meet and i dont think they would be going on blind dates.
For once, I am willing to stay quiet and let that Allah Mian ki gaaye architect speak. Poor khawand chef hardly gets any time of the day in, with all them paintings and dushwar charts. :>