Do you encounter this feeling in dating?

[danial]

Re: Do you encounter this feeling in dating?

^ dude …

[Dushwari]

Re: Do you encounter this feeling in dating?

dear Impulse,

i know what u mean.

prince is just being, well, a prince - full of his ignorance.

kyoon prince??

@Impulse

i wasnt talking about dating. no i dont "date" as such. I was merely replying to afridis comment that guys are the ones who always listen..

it was just a general comment.

date is going out with someone etc....right? no i dont do that....that will only happen after our nikah is done insha-allah

talking can be done in other ways....such as on the phone

[Impulse]

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@PrinceMS

^^ once u have ur Nikah … you will go on date with guys? tsk tsk tsk … thats even worse

yeah thats what sick minded people like you would do :yukh: use your brain for once…

I’d go on a date with my husband.

[Dushwari]

Re: Do you encounter this feeling in dating?

no, impulse, even better, we will take them, bring them out to more respectful dates, after marriage unlike many young men, who think dating is marriage.

@Impulse

yeah thats what sick minded people like you would do :yukh: use your brain for once…

I’d go on a date with my husband.

[Dushwari]

Re: Do you encounter this feeling in dating?

aap dhotheye hein,, iss liyeye paintings yaad hein.

Architects DRAW kerteye hein floor plans!

@dhobi_bhai

For once, I am willing to stay quiet and let that Allah Mian ki gaaye architect speak. Poor khawand chef hardly gets any time of the day in, with all them paintings and dushwar charts. :>

[Naughty_by_Nature]

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Dushwari...
All people are different and need therefore to be dealt with differently...there have been girls iv dated who in the initial stages i call often and those who i call every now and again...depending on the individual...you act differently...
There is no correct method as such...

Impulse

Get off your high horse...when someone like danial asks you if you date...answer correctly and say 'yes'...i would have thought after my sugarcoating thread you would finally be honest with yourself...but you still proceed to poke your nose at others and call them sick when you do the same things...shameful really...

[Terrible_Guy]

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@Dushwari

I don’t want to grow on her/ him nor act detached. what level of text messaging and or argumenting about general world view back and forth talk is appropriate, to assess each other's thoughts and ideas?

when should a young lady stop and avoid circuitous comments and arguments? & when should a young man do so?

is it healthy to be only a listener in a relationship, and write back a one line of " i agree" or "u are right"?

& let's say u have not met this person in real, yet, should u really be talking out in advance, so much that u fear, when the first meeting will be, there will be nothing to say, really?

& it might be a silent first date? :> opinions? chime in, all!

dush

Nope and I've never had those concerns, Alhamdulillah.

[Impulse]

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@Naughty by Nature

Impulse

Get off your high horse...when someone like danial asks you if you date...answer correctly and say 'yes'...i would have thought after my sugarcoating thread you would finally be honest with yourself...but you still proceed to poke your nose at others and call them sick when you do the same things...shameful really...

are you jealous or what?!

why do u keep saying the same thing again and again? I dont give a crap about what you say....because I have read your other posts....in other threads...and they are all full of bull****....so for me anything u say is less than crap

no matter how many times u say it ....I dont agree with you....you kissing, **ing, hugging a million girls is NOT the same as me **just talking on the phone to my future husband (whom both our families know about) now just leave me alone....

I couldve gotten my nikah done today and u wouldnt even know about it......and ud keep on ranting like an old buddha who has nothing better to do......you dont know me or whats happening in my life so stay out of what is my business

[hussain87]

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^:Salute:

[Dushwari]

Re: Do you encounter this feeling in dating?

patience my dear.

@Impulse

are you jealous or what?!

why do u keep saying the same thing again and again? I dont give a crap about what you say....because I have read your other posts....in other threads...and they are all full of bull****....so for me anything u say is less than crap

no matter how many times u say it ....I dont agree with you....you kissing, **ing, hugging a million girls is NOT the same as me **just talking on the phone to my future husband (whom both our families know about) now just leave me alone....

I couldve gotten my nikah done today and u wouldnt even know about it......and ud keep on ranting like an old buddha who has nothing better to do......you dont know me or whats happening in my life so stay out of what is my business

[PrinceMS]

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@Impulse

I quote from Wikipedia:

Courtship
(redirected from word ‘DATING’)

Courtship is the process of selecting and attracting another for an intimate relationship such as love, sex, commitment …

By defination you CANNOT date someone if you have already selected them as a mate.

I do apologize if you have taken it as an offensive remark towards yourself. That was not my intent.

[Terrible_Guy]

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@PrinceMS

@Impulse

I quote from Wikipedia:

By defination you CANNOT date someone if you have already selected them as a mate.

I do apologize if you have taken it as an offensive remark towards yourself. That was not my intent.

Here’s one from dictionary.com:
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/dating

[quote]

date
n.
[ol]
[li][LIST=1][/li][li]

Time stated in terms of the day, month, and year.[/li][li]A statement of calendar time, as on a document.[/ol][/li][li]A specified day of a month.[/li][ol]
[li]

A particular point or period of time at which something happened or existed, or is expected to happen.[/li][li]dates The years of someone’s birth and death: Beethoven’s dates were 1770 to 1827.[/ol][/li][li]The time during which something lasts; duration.[/li][li]The time or historical period to which something belongs: artifacts of a later date.[/li][li]An appointment: a luncheon date with a client; a date with destiny. See Synonyms at engagement.[/li][ol]
[li]

**An engagement to go out socially with another person, often out of romantic interest. **[/li][li]One’s companion on such an outing.[/ol][/li][li]An engagement for a performance: has four singing dates this month.[/LIST][/li][/quote]

Considering this definition, it is very possible to date your spouse, which is also the implication I made in my response.

[Impulse]

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@Terrible Guy

Here’s one from dictionary.com:
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/dating

Considering this definition, it is very possible to date your spouse, which is also the implication I made in my response.

thanks terrible guy:k:

PrinceMS -basically it means going out with your partner…just the two of you. whatever name you want to call it doesnt matter…

[Naughty_by_Nature]

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Impulse
Lol thats a bit rich...my posts are full of bull...my stuff has basis...yours has nothing...I brought up things based on Islam...your ideas were based on what exactly?...

I asked you a simple question which you were too p**** to answer...i admit i do zina but you do zina of the tongue...can you using Islam show me that what you do isnt wrong cos i can certainly show you that it is...so if you think Islam is bull then thats your perogative...so rather than getting all upset and throwing around personal attacks can your actually reply with an answer...

But i gather thats a no anyway cos you would hate to admit to your holier than thou self that you are as sinful as the rest of us...but anyway sister ignorance is not a justification come judgement day...

I dont expect you to answer cos you have nothing useful to say...and as for me being jealous...please...im having fun and my relationship isnt based on a something false...

And as for me staying out of your business...im stating a principle...you've attacked my relationships based on Islam and said im sick...now all im saying is that you are as disgusting as i am in the eyes of your beloved creator so ill leave it at that...

Capiche

And as for Dushwari im not even gonna bother with you...You have got to be one of the most intellectually challenged people i have come across...learn some basic literacy skills...i beg of you...if your UK based my 5 year old cousin has a really good teacher i can recommend...if you want a number let me know...you'll be able to write coherent english in no time...good luck...

[Sara516]

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Thank god i don thave to deal with this crap anymore

[PrinceMS]

Re: Do you encounter this feeling in dating?

^^ u leaving GS? ... j/k

[Sara516]

Re: Do you encounter this feeling in dating?

^ You wish :p