Re: do you ask guy's salary in rishta process??
Buck stops here
More important than salary and degree is the person himself, does he have a good personality, can he treat you properly. Is he well mannered, good background matters more to me. What is the point of having good salary and degree if the guy is not mature and not compatible with you. True happiness does not come only from money but from compatibility and how each partners treat the others and that is more important.
Re: do you ask guy's salary in rishta process??
Aww..poor guy. You make so much money as a doctor and girls are falling all over you but noone gets to really know you. Such a tough life. hang in there buddy.
Just get some icecream and let those tears come out. Don't hold em back!
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Re: do you ask guy's salary in rishta process??
Every parent wants their daughter to marry a guy who is working at a great company and earning loads....however this is not always the case...but as parents it is polite to ask..if you find this question comfortable, how much do you earn? and yes after marraige their job could finish...but still as parents I would want to know...as long as they are educated they should inshallah get a good job*...but its nice to know whether they can afford ur daughter too*..just my personal opinion..
were you smoking pot when you wrote this?
Re: do you ask guy's salary in rishta process??
Seeing this thread. The true tragedy in what i have been looking for girl's rishta is this:
Since i am professional doctor. Girl's family always look at "vo tu doctor hay". He must earns lot of money. Yes Allah ka shukr i do. They fail to see what i have to offer for personality. How is my personality? whether i am right match for their daughter. They simply over-look this factor. I was recently talking to one of the girl because my mom she is good girl and all. Everything was going ok until her main focus has been. "ap to doctor hayn is liya etc." This girl never bothered to ask me about compatiblity and express her expectations. Though i tried my best to have decent conversation to get to know her personality. Anyway, i just called it off. What i am sayin is, get to know me first not my career and what i do. In my opinion, what matter is personality and charactertics.
stop looking for girls "back home" and you won't face this problem. u can get to know some people yourself too...ur mom doesnt have to hold your hand and pin-point everything to u.
Re: do you ask guy’s salary in rishta process??
yea…“back home” people are rotten …don’t ever 
Re: do you ask guy’s salary in rishta process??
correct.
Re: do you ask guy's salary in rishta process??
My husband sent his emplyment contract stating his salary without us asking for it. Infact he was kind of surprised asking why was dad wasn't taking more interest in these things.