Re: do you ask guy’s salary in rishta process??
Seeing this thread. The true tragedy in what i have been looking for girl’s rishta is this:
Since i am professional doctor. Girl’s family always look at “vo tu doctor hay”. He must earns lot of money. Yes Allah ka shukr i do. They fail to see what i have to offer for personality. How is my personality? whether i am right match for their daughter. They simply over-look this factor. I was recently talking to one of the girl because my mom she is good girl and all. Everything was going ok until her main focus has been. “ap to doctor hayn is liya etc.” This girl never bothered to ask me about compatiblity and express her expectations. Though i tried my best to have decent conversation to get to know her personality. Anyway, i just called it off. What i am sayin is, get to know me first not my career and what i do. In my opinion, what matter is personality and charactertics.
stop looking for girls “back home” and you won’t face this problem. u can get to know some people yourself too…ur mom doesnt have to hold your hand and pin-point everything to u.