do you ask guy's salary in rishta process??

[cutefifa]

Re: do you ask guy’s salary in rishta process??

@HotTea

you’re confusing yourself. Asking is one thing and then NOT believing and trying to over-validate is another thing. As I said earlier, asking a guys salary is fair, but asking for paystubs/w2s is taking it a bit too far. It’s the girl and her family choice on what factors to base their decision on. If paycheck is the sole factor - then good for them.

OK now i get your point. You are fair enough here but still i think its girls parents choice how they validate info they get from guy. Means in my family they ask him and then validate from his company and related industry… in this way we have good idea. But some people are more conscious about these things.

Thats why i said email archives if a girl or her family wants to see paystub to VALIDATE the guy is being truthful abt his salary, then its well within the rights for the guy and his family to ask for anything to VALIDATE that the girl is being truthful abt her being “shareef”

Then girls family can ask for same things to VALIDATE that guy is actually SHAREEF or not