do you ask guy's salary in rishta process??

[HotTea]

Re: do you ask guy’s salary in rishta process??

@cutefifa

Whats the problem with this auction thing? If guys family can ask everything about girl like her height, her complexion, her education, her job, her family status, her fathers back ground then it is a girls family right to select a best earning man for her daughter. If you can reject any girl bcoz she is not gori or lambi or her younger sister is more beautiful and lively then you should be ready to be rejected by her parents on salary basis.

p.s. you means majority of guys not only YOU

you’re confusing yourself. Asking is one thing and then NOT believing and trying to over-validate is another thing. As I said earlier, asking a guys salary is fair, but asking for paystubs/w2s is taking it a bit too far. It’s the girl and her family choice on what factors to base their decision on. If paycheck is the sole factor - then good for them.

What if girls family ask for same things in return… means archives of your emails and fb account. You have very serious issues with fb and girls on fb.. I am wondering why??? Its not necessary that bad character girls have everything on her fb account. May be she is very good in hiding things on fb as most of the girls and guys have whole family on their friendlist so they don’t openly discuss everything on fb.

Thats why i said email archives if a girl or her family wants to see paystub to VALIDATE the guy is being truthful abt his salary, then its well within the rights for the guy and his family to ask for anything to VALIDATE that the girl is being truthful abt her being “shareef”