Right , Sara, let me get even with you now 
hipocrisy is a huge word darling … I save food for my own religious reasons .. you dont believe in saving that , fine throw away as much as you want … we are all answerable for our own deeds , thank god for that..
**I did say that saving food is perfectly alright. Someone doesnt know how to read 
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so why is tipping another form of bribery? coz my dear, you are putting them in the habit of extra kamai on top of their earnings .. the tipping should come as a bonus from their employers to them , not from you directly to them !
**Tipping = bribery = stinginess. I don’t think our religion encourages that does it?
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an example , if you work in an office then try this , get one of your clients to give you a perfume or something as a tip for your dedicated work … and then watch your boss blow up , coz they will not let that happen as you are part of the company not a brand of your own etc etc … this is a gross misconduct in some companies … … on the other hand , if the client comes up to your boss and says she is really good at her job and we are happy with the service we were provided , your boss might as well offer you a performance bonus …
**Every industry has their own standards. What works for your line of work may be different for another line of work. **
thats the difference .. I can go on and on … but ofcourse it will be influenced by islamic principles … which i am not very sure , the westernised bunch will be ready to hear anymore **
I won’t go on and on b/c i’ve made my point very simply. But of course the “I-am-so-much-better-than-you/I-am-so-good-and-Islamic-and-you-are-just-westerners” bunch won’t be ready to listen and comprehend.
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