Re: Do Women Know What They Want?
Hahahahah. Amir that was a good post.
Girls want a charming AND honest person.. AND good-looking.. and tall.. and well-groomed.. well educated, confident and classy too!
not too much to ask for!
Girls want a charming AND honest person.. AND good-looking.. and tall.. and well-groomed.. well educated, confident and classy too!
hi,
I am PM. :)
Re: Do Women Know What They Want?
If Girls want such a guy
how come most of the time many of u end up with things not even half-that. especially in the looks department. haha
Shameeee.
me offf
and PM, missed u bro, nice 2 c u back.
^When a guy and his mother can demand for a picture perfect wife/bahu.. us girls have some say too!
@ PM, waves
I totally agree with Amir-pindi’s posts … I think he has put down a woman’s psychology very well …
We do look for that guy who we can depend on and is a charmer … and even if the strongest person comes in front of us who doesnt seem dependable or isnt a charmer , we just drive them away !!! 
^When a guy and his mother can demand for a picture perfect wife/bahu.. us girls have some say too!
@ PM, waves
May be you and me can hit it off ehhh?
^ Aapkay matlooba number se filhaal jawab nahin aaraha..baraye mehrbani dobara try mat kijiye ga, shukria!
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^ LOL 
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i see this thread making the Top 10 threads of 2009, that's my observation anyway. :D
‘MEOW!’ 
^ Aapkay matlooba number se filhaal jawab nahin aaraha..baraye mehrbani dobara try mat kijiye ga, shukria!
aa jay ga, aa jay ga
Mujhy bhi bhi koi "khas" jaldi naheen
^ Not in this lifetime.. the next doesn't look promising either!
lolzzzz
Mujhy matloba number sy matloba jawab lena aata hy 
just watch closely.
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Most women I know do know what they want.
What you have to consider is how many other 'wants' they have to consider alongside with their own. Such as their mother for instance; who wants someone well settled, older and more mature.
Or their brother, who wants someone that can 'check out,' who would be automatically suspicious of anyone the girl brings home.
or their sister, who also wants someone older and settled, but not necessarily so mature; after all she married someone 'mature' and doesn't get to have too much fun now.
Or the father, for instance, who wants a good family background; similar belief systems and economic backgrounds.
Say the girl wants someone who is mature; but not so 'mature' he's balding; fun loving and spontaneous. Cultured, mannered; and doesn't give two hoots about how large his bank account is. Couple that with the fact that most desi girls don't have the ability to date and find a match for themselves; so as far as personality goes (which is a whole 'nother ball park) they really get very few chances to guage the true nature of someone.
So if that stoic, honest, principled young man is sitting in front of them; composed, but willing; as opposed to the young rake who is joking, trying to get to know the girl and making her laugh...who will she feel more for (at that time at least?)
can you really blame them for getting a little confused in the few scenarious they actually are given a choice?
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why thank you sadzzz :-)
(your name is sad...but you're happy happy happy...?)
Thank you! :)
My take on that is quite simple. A principled person does not always seek to keep everyone happy as that would often mean a compromise over principles. In relationships, principled men would not say things that they know they won't be able to fulfill. They would be more straightforward and open about their financial situation, and reveal their true expectations from a married life. That means they won't say or do things they don't truly mean, which would not be music to a woman's ears at all times. However, those are the real men, women often do not go after. Many women would choose a fake prince charming over an honest man till they get to know where they went wrong.
right on.
Hear-up
Formula for attracting a Girl:
Just make them LAUGH
Job-done.period. Any Girl.
When they laugh they get irrational, from thier on what can you not make an irrational person do?
icing on the cake..
ALthough its not difficult task, while the principled guy resists this unright/immoral approach, the loser ruthlessly exploits it to the extent, simulataneously scoring by adopting the false image of the 'principled' guy.
Many a time by the time u gals realise his reality, its too late....
i have seen too many real-life and personal expericnes and to illustrate.
seriusly Its soo eassy....its plaudible.
So Why shdunt it make us good guys angry.