Re: do traditional professional girls still exist?
You’re correct in the sense that most Ib’ers want a dolly bird with a bit of substance on their arm - there’s a reason why most ib’ers end up forking out alimony year after year! My family (immediate) has about 7 guys (ranging from an executive director at tier 1 IB’s to fresh grads learning to trade on the floor). Of these that are married, only two are married to British Paki girls and only because they are traditional in mindset and thought.
Me personally, I’ve got a little bit of time to decide before I finally get wed, but what I’ve been asking myself is what exactly am I getting by marrying a brit paki professional woman rather then just bringing in a girl from one of the elite paki families from Lahore? Both will hopefully give me children, both will keep me warm at night, I have no issue connecting to either (I can read/write urdu - travelled back to Lahore all my life, at least once a year).
As far Ib’ers wanting a wife to show off - look, most ib’ers are p.ussies in their marriage but tigers in the boardroom. I’m not one of those that needs to compete (at least not anymore that is) with colleague x y or z when it comes to what dollybird I have on my arm and besides, I’ll be officially retired within 5 years inshallah. As far as taking wives to wprk dinners, functions, parties etc, none of the guys in my family that work at IB’s take their wives to work functions. My uncle took my phupo one time only, turned out it was a swingers key party! Since then, we separate our professional and home lives (I have separate phones for each!).